Pink has a new song out called, So What? The lyrics begin, "I guess I just lost my husband, I don't know where he went. So I'm gonna drink my money, I'm not gonna pay his rent (nope)." But then Pink has always been pretty cavalier about things. Most of us women aren't so care free about it. So start with these steps and you will be well on your way to get your ex boyfriend back.
1 - To start this process, you have to convince this confused man that he still really rather be with you. Unless there is not a chance of this, you have a good starting point and can move forward based on this.
2 - Desperation may be the English way, but you need to avoid it at all costs! Desperation will drive your ex boyfriend away. It is easy to get how to make your ex boyfriend flee forever, just act desperate and he is gonna bail!
3 - 'Sup Bro? Your next task to become one of his best buds. I mean, you should know him pretty well, right? So show him that you understand where he is coming from and grow a pair, that is leave the drama anywhere but when you are with him. He needs to see you can be buds, joke and hang out without any real issues showing up. Time can be your best friend here. You are hanging out, having good times, the time passes, the relationship and the drama connected to it fades, and then all the sudden...BAM! He starts thinking that he is having a real good time with you and you are like one of his best buds...did he make a mistake letting you go? That little doubt in his mind can be the spark that burns a blaze of passion back.
4 - Not even! Okay, communication is the key here. Every time you guys talk and hang out, be yourself, but every once in a while, show some attitude. Even though you would take him back in a New York minute, you have to make him believe that he is not going to just get you back. If he starts to flirt and make advances, don't go all ga-ga, instead play a little hard to get. Now not only does he have doubt in his mind about letting you go, he also gets a nice dose of "can't get what you don't have" and that is like a leather glove slap in the face challenge to a man. He will now do anything to try and get you back.
5 - Cool the engines, but don't exhaust the flame. You should be acting like everything is everything, maybe even a little hard to get. However, you also want to make sure he knows that you are still single, not seeing anybody and that you are available when he realizes that he messed up and needs you back. Flirting a little bit here and there while you hang out can be a good thing. After all, you did have a relationship together, surely a flirt would not be unacceptable. Flirt a little with other guys too when you are all hanging out. This will stir a little jealousy, which could be a good thing in your favor. Still, play it on the low side so he still thinks you are getable! If he feels like you have moved on completely, he will loose his motivation to get your relationship back.
6 - Any time that you know he is looking at you, or if you feel like he is looking at you, look at him out of the corner of your eye. This sidelong glance will let him know that you are paying attention to him, but in a mysterious "you can't have me" kind of way.
7 - Hey, remember that time... You can stir, more like anchor, good memories of your past relationship by casually bringing up conversations on those times that were the best you had together in the relationship. He will start to think about all the good times you guys had together and start being remorseful that he ever let you go. Make sure that whatever you bring up, you know for a fact that he sees it as a good memory, because any bad memory will make you take many steps back, where a good memory may only get you one more step forward.
As you can tell these are simple and down to earth suggestions which will provide just a few of the steps for learning how to get ex boyfriend back, even if he's moved on. Read the above until you really get how to make him really wish he never broke up and wants you back.
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